Threesomes Vs Foursomes

Threesome Why Not a Foursome

Ok off subject a bit here but I got asked the other day why my husband and I won’t participate in foursomes but are willing to do threesomes. Well the short answer to that is two women together is sexually erotic, two men together is not. Now before you jump on your high horse and start shouting sexism these are mine and my husband’s views on our sexual preferences. What you do in your own home is your own business and I would never ever feel I have the right to judge you, so please don’t judge me.

FFFM Maybe

Foursome

Basically my husband would only ever consider a foursome if it involved three women and I must say I feel the same way. I would consider it cheating if another man was to have sex with me whether my husband was watching me or not. Now I know this sounds crazy but having sex with another woman in front of my husband cannot in my opinion be classed as cheating, it’s an activity he enjoys watching and I enjoy participating in.

That is just the way I feel about it and I’m sure everyone else will have different views on the situation as well. Another reason I wouldn’t want to try a foursome is I think the intimacy of three people would be stretched to the limit if you added another person to the party, plus we don’t have a bed big enough to accommodate four people.

Swingers and Foursomes

We did try out a swingers club looking for women to join us in a threesome some years back but we found only old overweight people looking to swap their partners with us and we really were not into that kind of arrangement. But these people enjoyed swapping their husbands and wife’s and I guess foursomes do work for some people but it really is not for me or my husband at all.

So we choose to have threesomes and have no plans to extend that to a foursome now or any time in the future. We are happy in our own little world and we are happy in our sex life and no longer feel the need to do anything else to spice it up. We have found what works for us and we thoroughly enjoy ourselves when we invite other women to join us.

Again if you have an opinion on foursomes or threesomes and you wish to voice your opinion please leave a comment below and share with us what’s on your mind, but please don’t just rant and shout abuse at us because we will simply not publish your comments.

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Bisexual or Straight

Am I Bi or Straight

When my husband asked me am I bi or straight my immediate answer was straight of course, and then he said but I have sex with other women so I must be bisexual. After thinking on this for a little while I told him I enjoy having sex with other women but only when you’re with us. I really would not want to just have sex with another woman alone.

You see I didn’t see myself as bisexual because the only time I enjoy another woman’s sexual company is when my husband joins in as well. Yes I perform sexual acts on other women and they do so with me as well, but I would never consider having a sexual relationship with another woman if my husband wasn’t around.

I Love Sharing My Husband

If I walk down the street and see a good looking guy I might think to myself I bet he’s good in bed, but if I see a beautiful woman I don’t have a single thought about sleeping with her. Yes I’ve had fantasies about sleeping with other women but that’s all they were up until our first threesome.

I guess what I’m trying to say is I don’t fancy other women unless they are joining my husband and I in a threesome. Then I find myself changing into someone else someone with an appetite for a bisexual encounter someone who loves the feel of another woman’s body against hers.   

But this only happens three to four times a month the rest of the month I don’t think of women in a sexual way at all. The title of this blog is I want to share my husband with another woman not I want to have sex with another woman, but is this not really the same thing.

I guess when I really think about it and I’m honest with myself then yes I am a bisexual but for some reason I just don’t class myself as one. And at the end of the day does it really matter, you see I really don’t think it matters at all what my sexual preferences are. I love my husband and enjoy pleasing him whether it is in a threesome with another woman or just by myself. 

Anyway if you would like to express your opinions on this subject please feel free to leave a comment below with your thoughts, oh and the video I’ve added below is just for fun, I found it quite entertaining.

Threesomes

My Threesome Fantasy

Ok so the title of this blog may shock a lot of you and you’re probably wondering if it’s true, well yes it is true I want to share my husband with another woman. But that was over three years ago and I have since shared my husband with many different women over the course of those years and it was the best decision I or should I say we ever made.

You see I’ve always had fantasies of sleeping with another woman but not alone, my fantasy always involved three of us myself my husband and another woman. I never mentioned this to my husband because in reality I really didn’t think it would ever happen. But a few years back our sex life started to go downhill somewhat and I love my husband dearly and so wanted to fix it.

Our First Threesome

Now a friend of mine who happens to be bisexual was visiting from out of town and decided to drop by to say hello and take me out for dinner, and after a lovely afternoon at a restaurant we went back to my home to share a bottle of wine. Needless to say we both got a bit tipsy and my friend admitted to having a crush on me for years.

FFM

I then told her about my fantasy to which she agreed to participate in. The next step was to persuade my husband. Yes he’s a man and every man dreams of having a threesome with two women but he can be very conservative at times. Anyway after discussing it between all three of us we decided to go ahead.

All I can say is WOW what an evening. We loved it we loved every minute of it and couldn’t wait to do it again. The sex was fantastic it lasted for hours and we all fell asleep together and the next morning we all had sex together again. There was no jealousy on any ones minds we all just thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.

Bars and Clubs and Swinger Joints

That day my friend went home and that was the first and last time we would have a threesome together, you see she met her future husband and they moved abroad and that was the end of that. So we started visiting bars and clubs hoping to find new friends who would like to join us in bed but this was a lot harder than we had imagined.

We did meet a couple of nice women who joined us but it just seemed far too hard to keep trying like this so we thought we would try out a swingers club we were told about. That was a huge mistake, the people we met were nice enough to talk too but we definitely didn’t want to sleep with any of them. The age difference was big and most of them were well over weight.

Adult Dating Websites

So I turned to the internet for information and found a lot of places like craigslist and other free ad places but these just seemed to attract some very strange people indeed, in fact we did meet up with one lady who turned out to be about sixty years old. So we gave up on that method and started browsing the internet for more information on threesomes.

Then I came across an ad for an adult dating site which to be honest I never knew these kind of dating sites even existed, so after doing a bit of research on this site we joined up and met our first date at a local bar that very same night. The evening went well and we all decided to head back to ours for more drinks and to get to know each other better.

Adult Dating Websites

Well we all ended up in bed together and had a tremendous night and we still meet up now and again for sex. But the best thing about joining this adult dating site was we could now meet up with different women pretty much whenever we wanted to, and that’s exactly what we do. We have since joined six more great adult dating websites and we meet up for threesomes about three to four times a month now.

Our sex lives are fulfilled and our marriage is a happy and loving one but I cannot and will not recommend trying a threesome to anyone else. Every marriage is different and a threesome may save one couples marriage but may very well destroy someone else’s, so my advice would be to think hard about it before you commit to a threesome.

But saying that it worked for us and may for you.

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